Soul Mates

My mother and I had many discussions on this topic as she had many relationships but only one love. However she felt he was not her soul mate. My mother and father had a wonderful relationship, 25 years in fact as they allowed each other to be who they were.

Many years later after he died we were talking and she told me "he was the absolute love of my life but not my soul mate". I was confused as I always thought these were one in the same but she believed a soul mate is not always a harmonious relationship as they are often the ones that bring many challenges and lessons but change our lives for ever. The connection is so strong it can be bewitching and sometimes impossible to break.

Now that I have seen many people and worked with numerology I believe this to be true. I have heard of many women’s passions and challenges from the relationships they were in...

A Sarah story

One of my clients Sarah really wanted to meet someone and fall in love. Sarah was extremely attractive but had very low self esteem. She would meet plenty of people but the relationship never seem to get off the ground. There was often a physical connection but very little else.

The moment she would meet a man, she would think "this is the one and I’m in love". After a few outings she would not hear from them again and find out they were married or in a relationship already and was even dumped by txt.  She came to see me for a reading as she felt very distraught about the state of her life. I suggested she set out not to meet anyone for a while and work on her self worth. She should continue to work though some of the deeper issues she had about attracting a man who would be a strong nurturer and who would grow to love her.

We set out to do a few things

1. I asked her to sort out her physical life and make sure her home was in order and free from clutter.
2. I got her to do a clearing spell in her bedroom to remove the negative energy and feelings. This would release them to make a fresh start. 
3. Then she worked on affirmations and made some new personal goals and plans - one of then was to have a fun trip with a girlfriend within the next six months.

She decided to join a gym and after eight months slowly the changes began to emerge. Her work colleges kept telling her how great she looked and Sarah’s emotional state was the most positive she had felt for a long time.  She decided to do an attraction spell and see what opened up.

Sarah put her profile on a dating site but this time had some very strong boundaries. She decided to only meet for coffee and if she liked the man they would continue talking to each other via the internet before she went on an actual date. The men she met were keen but she held back and made the arrangements on her terms. Sarah finally met Craig and the relationship went from strength to strength. Sarah did not jump in and this seems made Craig keener than ever.

I am pleased to say they are now married and are very happy.

Before you do an attraction spell, make sure you are in a good head space to attract a positive person into your life. The stronger you are emotionally, the easier it will be to make good decisions about who you meet. Keep reaffirming your strengths to yourself and be ready to walk away when it does not feel right.

Remember - you are worth it!